Monday, April 12, 2010

pray the devil back to hell

i was invited to attend a women's leadership forum this weekend. how could i possibly say no to that?!
so, of course i went!

it was fantastic to be surrounded by so many women who were so successful and dedicated to making a difference in others lives.

the day started off with a great meal and sitting at a table getting to know the women around me. i had some great conversations with the ladies at my table. (i know you're not supposed to talk about a lady's age, so i will not disclose anymore information besides this tidbit- i was the only one still in college.) the reason i even make a point of saying that is because i'm at a crossroads at this particular moment in time, and the women at my table were distinguished in one way or another. they had found their calling and created a path. i was basically sitting in their presence in total and utter awe. some were college professors, social workers, creators of organizations, and much more.

after our meal, we watched a documentary titled, "pray the devil back to hell."
it's about the women of liberia who prayed for peace at a time when their country was in utter turmoil and devastation due to its leadership. young boys were being recruited into the armed forces of a corrupt government and being trained to kill and destroy.

the images shown were heartbreaking and terribly hard to watch. there were scenes where young boys held guns and dragged dead bodies proudly. my heart ached as women who were mothers, sisters, daughters, grandmothers, etc were subjected to watching the ones they love die or murder others.

there was not a dry eye in the room. (yours truly was doing all i could to keep from sobbing too loudly.)

one woman made a stand.
she gathered thousands of women- old, young, christian and muslim, to rally together and pray for peace. together.

they silently protested and showed their unity by wearing white shirts.
these thousands of women demanded a change, peacefully, and prayed that the civil war in liberia would come to an end.

this documentary speaks volumes about the change that can happen when women come together and dedicate their time to a cause.

here's a passage from the website- www.praythedevilbacktohell.com

"A story of sacrifice, unity and transcendence, Pray the Devil Back to Hell honors the strength and perseverance of the women of Liberia. Inspiring, uplifting, and most of all motivating, it is a compelling testimony of how grassroots activism can alter the history of nations."

if this peaks your interest i would strongly recommend checking out the website.

and remember- all the strength you need is inside yourself.
xoxo

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

thank you kate.

i met an amazing human being last month.
her name is kate bornstein.

she wrote a book titled "gender outlaw: on men, women and the rest of us." (this book was published in 1994. yours truly didn't read it until this past winter for a book club, but everything in it is still so relevant today.)

my reaction after reading it was plain and simple: the book blew my mind.

this blog entry isn't going to be a book review, but i will say this- any person can read it and learn something.
(i mention the book because after reading it, i developed a new philosophy- question everything.)

kate came to the berkshires- which was such a thrill!
she gave a presentation on one night and on the second there was a performance.
(i was lucky enough to be able to go both nights.)

her presentation was about the difference between sex and gender. (which growing up i thought were the same thing.) not the case. she also went over the "alphabet soup of sexualities" under the glbtcq umbrella- there's more than just those, and there's one for everybody. trust me. i found myself in her alphabet. :]
the next night she gave a performance where she read some stories aloud. it was so personal, so intimate, and so amazing.
i laughed with her, cried with her, got angry at the ignorance of others with her and believed in power of humanity with her.

kate touches the lives of so many with such a positive light.
she is truly a lovely individual.

i could gush about how much i admire her for hours, but i'll spare you.
she just really inspired me. i had no idea that when i decided to join that book club and read kate's book i would look at life in a whole new way.
thank you kate.